Hello Gorgeous!

I'm Lindsey Means and I want to be your Fairy Godmother + Initiatrix

🪄 For the past 8 years, I’ve been on a journey of deep embodiment, energetic mastery, and sacred reclamation, unlocking my true essence and rising into the most magnetic, powerful version of myself.

👑 Through Human Design, nervous system healing, and masculine + feminine energetics, I’ve activated my own Empress frequency, not just as an identity, but as a way of being, creating, and leading.

Now, I guide women through this same transformation: to embody their design, expand their capacity to receive, and awaken their authentic power.

🙅‍♀️ Here’s the truth: you are not broken. You’ve simply been conditioned to believe something is wrong with you. My mission is to help you remember your wholeness and reclaim the freedom to live authentically.

🧙‍♀️ Think of me as equal parts Fairy Godmother and Initiatrix. I walk with you through the portals where fear, scarcity, and self-sabotage dissolve, and confidence, peace, and embodied freedom take root.

🧬 My mission isn’t about giving you more information. It’s about embodiment, releasing old stories, reclaiming your power, and transmuting what once held you back into fuel for your liberation.

The ultimate journey is this: from “I am not enough” → “I am free to live fully as myself.”

Death, Rebirth, and Everything In Between

🤯 In 2017, everything shifted with one thought: “Oh shit, I think my dad’s a narcissist.”

😳 The next thought followed quickly: “Oh shit, I think I need therapy.”

That moment cracked me open. I spent a year in therapy, and from there, my entire world changed.

🔥 I dove headfirst into personal development and healing. I devoured hundreds of books, listened to countless hours of podcasts, and became obsessed with understanding the mind, body, and spirit.

🌱 My path led me into plant medicine, over 100+ hours spent in ceremony, into deep soul work, and eventually into Human Design.

Since 2020, I’ve studied Human Design relentlessly, reading 999+ charts and witnessing people’s lives transform when they finally saw themselves clearly.

🐦‍🔥 Along the way, I’ve walked through my own initiations: a kundalini awakening, endless nights of shadow work, and hundreds of death-and-rebirth cycles that stripped away who I thought I had to be, so I could remember who I truly am.

👸 This wasn’t a straight line. It was messy. It was painful. It was real. But it gave me what I now call my Empress Frequency, a way of being, creating, and leading that is rooted in embodiment, truth, and liberation.

🪄 Now, I guide others through this same alchemy, so you can release the stories that keep you stuck, reclaim your authentic power, and rise into the most magnetic version of yourself!

What Working With Me Feels Like

🤩 I create a space where you feel safe, seen, and celebrated, not for who you think you should be, but for who you truly are.

If we co-create together, we’ll:

✨ Use Human Design as a map to reveal your authentic blueprint and natural flow.
✨ Release the stories, conditioning, and patterns that keep you in fear, scarcity, or self-sabotage.
✨ Expand your nervous system capacity so peace, confidence, and freedom feel natural in your body.
✨ Activate your authentic power, so life, business, and self-expression feel aligned and effortless.

🪄 This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you’ve always been, and embodying the truth that you are already whole, powerful, and free.

The Values + Pillars of Find Your WAI

✨ Find Your WAI is about coming home to the question at the core of every transformation: Who Am I? (WAI = Who Am I).

It’s not about fixing yourself, it’s about remembering your wholeness, reclaiming your power, and embodying your truth.

🪄 Find Your WAI is the space where fear, scarcity, and self-sabotage dissolve, and confidence, peace, and freedom take root.

These values and pillars guide everything I create:

Wholeness Over Brokenness

There is nothing wrong with you. The stories of being “too much” or “not enough” are lies inherited from conditioning and culture. True transformation begins when you recognize you are whole, even in your messiness.

Awareness is Power

Your thoughts, beliefs, and stories shape your reality. When you become aware of what’s been running the show, you can stop feeding fear and self-sabotage, and instead choose narratives that liberate and empower you.

The Body is the Gateway

You cannot think your way into peace. Safety, confidence, and freedom begin in your nervous system. By expanding your capacity to feel safe in your body, you open yourself to love, abundance, and authentic expression.

Liberation Through Letting Go

Your new life will cost you your old one. The pressure to be perfect, the fear of being seen, the comparison, the self-sabotage, all of it must be released. Letting go isn’t a loss; it’s liberation.

Embodiment of Truth

Transformation isn’t something you learn in theory—it’s how you live. Speaking your truth, setting boundaries, resting, playing, and creating rituals are all ways you embody your authentic power and experience peace, joy, and freedom in daily life.

These are more than just values. They are the pillars that hold everything I do.

🔥 Every program, every session, every word I share is designed to help you release, reclaim, transmute, and embody, so you can walk the path from “I am not enough”“I am free to live fully as myself.

Finding the right guide is intimate, it’s like dating.

🤩 You want chemistry, trust, and someone who sees you without fixing you. You want to feel safe, curious, and a little excited!

That’s why I invite you to a simple, no-pressure virtual coffee in my DMs.

☕️ This is your chance to feel me out, ask the questions that matter, and see if our energy aligns before you enter my world.

🧲 If you’re magnetized: DM me on Instagram by clicking the button and I’ll connect with you there! Bring one big question and I’ll bring clarity, reflection, and a little magic.

Welcome to Find Your WAI, your invitation to remember who you are, out loud and embodied!

Listen to the Find Your WAI Podcast!

🤩 Welcome to the Find Your WAI podcast where we are answering the question “Who Am I?” which is what WAI stands for.

🎧 This podcast will help you step into your royal birthright by embodying your Human Design, cultivating Sacred Union within and changing your state so that you can alchemize your life!